When to ask to meet online dating

11 May

You’re all set to make your next move – the first date proposal.

At this point, it’s best to keep up the momentum and pitch the first date during the first conversation, within 30 minutes of chatting to her on Whats App.

Do not spam her with messages or send abusive and threatening messages if she doesn’t agree to date you.

I shouldn’t have to say this but some men are idiots.

If either of those situations occur, I will say “Cool. Again, notice how I am not phrasing it as a question.

I am giving an excuse to meet in real life (because I don’t like lots of messaging) and am just saying “if you agree that long messaging sucks then you should come on a date with me”.

The primary aim of chatting to a women online is to meet her in real life. Once you feel you have messaged back and forth enough to get her feeling attracted and safe, it’s time to move fast and get something in the diary. Here’s why: As a rule, aim to arrange a date within 24 hours of her initial response to your first message, ideally within the first session of back and forth messaging.

When you first begin to push for a first date within hours of getting a response from a women, you may start to feel uneasy. Learn not to take rejections or flaky behaviour personally. You can use another messaging tool, but I prefer Whatsapp.

At this point you are probably wondering why bother moving her to another messaging system.

When you read my strategy below you’ll see what I mean. I don’t pay too much attention to this, but here are some things to consider: In other words, there is no ideal time to message. That means you don’t care if you are rejected (and as I said before, you will get rejected, many, many times). It’s time to convert your online chat to a first date.

Learn the patterns of each girl you are talking to and make decisions accordingly. Your mind will tell you that you are more likely to be rejected and should prolong the messaging phase to avoid the pain. You shouldn’t care if you get rejected because you are an Alpha male and you know you have an abundance of women in your life (even if this isn’t true yet, you must believe it will happen). After about 10-20 back and forth messages (keeping them short, 1-2 sentences each) you are going to move her from the website or app to Whats App.